The HO, The Freak and The Good Girls
The Ho, The Freak and the Good Girl
"Once you have the ability to discern what a woman's true personal core consists of, you know on what basis to interact with her". This is the root to handling a woman to your satisfaction - knowing her basic type before you get involved. If you don't realize her true type, you automatically are at a disadvantage in your involvement with her - you are off-base and unable to properly evaluate her actions according to her true type.
Here is an example:
If you are involved with a woman who has a penchant for being flirtatious with other men there are completely different reasons for her being that way, depending on her basic type. If she is a Ho, she's being flirtatious with the idea of making some money in mind. If she's a Freak, it's because she desires to "play," or to reassure herself as to her desirability. If she's a Good Girl, she could be attempting to arouse in you feelings of jealousy, which will reassure her that you care for her. If you show jealousy to a Good Girl, she feels more yours, more secure in your relationship. If you show jealousy to a freak, it shows her that she has you under control, and weakens your control over her.
And if you are the one being flirted with, not being able to discern the type of woman flirting with you could have negative ramifications. If you read into a Good Girl's flirtation that you can "get something done" with her, if you mistake her for a Freak and think she actually, if persuaded properly, will have sex with you, you will be badly disappointed when she draws a line she will not cross with you as far as intimacy goes. If you react to a Freak's flirtations thinking she is a Good Girl, you will be considered "too serious" for her, or not sexually adventurous enough and she is turned off. And if you don't realize a Ho is a Ho, and her flirtations with you are to get you to spend your money, and not because of you per se, you run the risk of getting your feelings hurt-along with your wallet."
Your proper diagnosis of a girl's true basic type could prove as beneficial to your mental health as a doctor's proper diagnosis to your physical well-being.
Properly determining a girl's basic type is possible by thorough knowledge of
each type's main characteristics, and mentally evaluating a woman much the same way as a baseball scout would evaluate a prospect for the team; close observation of not only major or overt actions but also small details, habits, idiosyncrasies and mindset exhibited. Through continued practice and experience, you will be able to "scout out" good, hot prospects for your team."
Such a simple clarification in your mind as to what type of girl you are dealing with - Ho, Freak or Good Girl - makes all the difference in the world sometimes between great success or abject failure. Not distinguishing this is the number one cause of men getting the "you're too nice for me"
When you look to get married, you are not going to retire from the battle of the sexes; you are going to select your lifelong opponent!
Woe to the man who loses control of the woman after married. To those who
are reading this and have already felt the pain of the legal dissolution of an emotional commitment -divorce- you have my heartfelt sympathy, but too bad ya shoulda known.
They weren't inadequate - they were just simply dealing with a Freak or a Ho
instead of a Good Girl! And some bitches will hide the type they know they are on purpose! Learn the details of the Three Basic Types, and make sure You are not the one played for a foo…!
3 Types:
It is absolutely necessary to know the type of a woman you are targeting.
No woman is 100 % of any one type - for example, you can catch a Good Girl's attention with a display of wealth (that’s your clout), but her bottom line is that she's at least going to have to feel she can grow to love you over time, because a Good Girl will not marry you just for your money. But a Good Girl is the type that will marry you even if you don't have anything but love for her. This is the type of girl that gives a man inspiration to achieve in life; she makes it worth going out into the world for, and enjoyable to come home to.
If a man mistakes her for a Freak, whose bottom line is the new and exciting,
usually sexual experience; the type to whom the worst fate imaginable is to be bored - if he misplays the Good Girl because he's been told that all women are the same, or, worse, he hasn't been told that they are NOT all the same and in exactly what way are they different - and just focuses on her sexually, then eventually his money is not going to be enough to keep her; finding love is a Good Girl's bottom line.
A Ho may marry a man for his money (a lot of Hoes have only one client - their husband!) and even if he is old and frail and unable to perform sexually, she will not jeopardize her position for mere sexual satisfaction by cheating on him; the Ho's bottom line is wealth and/or status. A lot of cheerleaders in high school are hoes-in-training, selling out to the top athlete in order to gain the currency of popularity. And of course we here on the pn know about the common ordinary street ho and her motivations.
A freak is where we want to put our aspiring pimpin attention to!
A Freak may be attracted to a wealthy man, or a man who shows a lot of clout and even if he is, Bling Bling, and she is married to him, she still would risk getting divorced because of the excitement of having sex with the bodyguard under a boardwalk pier. To a Freak, the new and exciting, usually sexual, is her bottom line. That's why boredom is so intolerable to this type girl, and she will risk danger to experience the taboo or forbidden simply because to her it's exciting, and "something to do". But even Freaks have a sense of convention and a female desire for security - remember, no bitch is 100 % of any type - it is the bottom-line choices that she makes that shows her true type.
"About the age of twenty-five or so, a Freak will start to look for someone to
settle down with. She almost always desires a "symp" (a male who allows the woman to be dominant mentally), not a man, because a symp will allow her to continue her freak way of constantly seeking male attention. This explains why you see beautiful girls married to average-looking guys - she can easily control him - she can easily control him, and therefore the relationship, by making him feel his ass is "lucky" to have her because other beauty. She may not necessarily have sex with another man after she's married, but neither she nor that po..fool, can ever be truly sure she won't. This is the type that is susceptible to the office or work affair. Over a period of time the nature of the Freak and her actions have a corrosive effect on the male's ego. If you do divorce the biatch, your prenuptial may keep your wallet intact, but it does nothing for the damage to your ego and pride. If you have money and are going to allow a woman to marry you for it, better a Ho than a Freak. Both choices, however, are bad.
"But, lots of times guys are willing to sacrifice their pride and control over the
woman they fuk with in order to obtain one that is extremely beautiful and attractive. Not us fuk's of course! This is a personal decision a male must make for himself. A Freak is capable of innocently, by her nature, conducting herself with other men in a way that is borderline "come-on". In other words, she is capable of giving off the impression to other men that, although she is with you, she is still available sexually to them if the right buttons are pushed. Again, she may not actually be available, but her nature requires her to give that impression in order to receive the level of male attention she needs to verify her desirability.
"Freaks are sometimes able to learn Ho behavior, but it is against basic type and usually results in psychological conflict. Eventually she may cease from actually giving access to her sex for money, but is comfortable with such things as posing naked for photography, or doing strip routines in nightclubs, things that are sexually provocative but do not require her to actually have impersonal sex for money. Girls who are "cockteasers" are Freaks. She might "give it up", she might not. How much do you want her and what are you willing to do for it to reaffirm her desirability is her criteria for deciding.
"That attitude is at the crux of the Freak's nature - her need for personal
recognition and a constant reaffirmation other femininity. When you attempt to get more than what a Freak gives sexually, by trying to turn the relationship into a deep emotional commitment, not only will you be unsuccessful, but also you will spoil the sex you're getting, because it will be time for her to move on and find someone else to "fall in love" with. Or worse, she will allow you to get deeply emotionally involved so that she can enjoy the thrill of going through the wedding process, itself something new and exciting "to do". Unfortunately, lots of times when this particular new thrill wears off, so does the marriage."
One of the main sources of frustration men have with women is one they create for themselves by treating a woman against type. If, early in the interaction, you treat a Freak as a Good Girl, a woman who wants love and loyalty, that's when you get the brush-off as "a nice guy" or "too serious" or "I just want to be friends". It wasn't that you were too nice, it was that you were too nice with the wrong type girl! Your approach would have worked perfectly with a Good Girl, who herself wanted a nice guy who was
serious.
Beware of any advice that does not specifically address the basic types of
women in how you approach them. Not all techniques work the same on all women!
-Aurthor Gordon
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